The Patience of Ayyoub
By Yasir Qadhi | 2026-01-08T15:05:11.980489+00:00 | Topic: Trials
The Patience of Ayyub
Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi
Opening Praise and Declaration of Faith
الحَمْدُ للهِ سَابِغِ النِّعَمِ وَخَالِقِ الإِنْسَانِ مِنْ بَعْدِ العَدَمِ فَالْحَمْدُ ثُمَّ الحَمْدُ ثُمَّ الحَمْدُ لَكَ حَمْداً كَثِيراً طَيِّباً يَا رَبِّ لَكَ أَعْطَيْتَنَا خَيْراً كَثِيراً رَبَّنَا سَتَرْتَ عَنْ كُلِّ مَا وَرَاءَ عُيُوبِنَا ثُمَّ الصَّلَاةُ بَعْدَ وَالتَّسْلِيمُ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ المُصْطَفَى الكَرِيمِ إِنَّ الحَمْدَ للهِ نَحْمَدُهُ وَنَسْتَعِينُهُ وَنَسْتَغْفِرُهُ وَنَعُوذُ بِاللهِ مِنْ شُرُورِ أَنْفُسِنَا وَمِنْ سَيِّئَاتِ أَعْمَالِنَا مَنْ يَهْدِهِ اللهُ فَلَا مُضِلَّ لَهُ وَمَنْ يُضْلِلْهُ فَلَا هَادِيَ لَهُ وَأَشْهَدُ أَنْ لَا إِلهَ إِلَّا اللهُ وَحْدَهُ لَا شَرِيكَ لَهُ وَأَشْهَدُ أَنَّ مُحَمَّداً عَبْدُهُ وَرَسُولُهُ.
"O you who have believed, fear Allah as He should be feared and do not die except as Muslims [in submission to Him]."
أما بعد
Introduction to the Stories of the Quran
My dear brothers and sisters in Islam, Allah mentions in the Quran:
We narrate to you the best of all stories. So every story in the Quran is a story that is full of wisdom and full of morals and full of lessons. And in today's short khutbah I wish to remind ourselves of one of the stories of the Quran that Allah specifically mentions and tells us to think about it.
The Story of Prophet Ayyub
And that is the story when Allah says: Remember the story of our servant Ayyub. Remember and think about the story of our servant Ayyub. Allah calls Ayyub: What a great servant was he. He kept on returning to Allah. And Allah mentions his story. And then he says in that story: There is wisdom and benefit for people of intelligence.
So what is the story of Ayyub? And how can we benefit from that story?
Background of Prophet Ayyub
The prophet Ayyub, in English he's called Job. The prophet Ayyub was from the descendants of Ishaq (peace be upon him). And he was sent to a group of people called the Edomites. And they were a semitic race who lived in what is today Transjordan. And his people believed in him.
Along with his prophethood, Allah also gave him plenty of wealth. Not every prophet was wealthy. Not every prophet was given of this world. Ayyub was given of this world along with being a prophet. And
every type of blessing you can think of: Money, gold, silver. Lots of land, animals. Along with this his wife was of the descendants of Yusuf. And she was a righteous lady. And his wife blessed him with, they say, up to a dozen children.
The Beginning of the Test
So he had deen and dunya. And the people of the town would look at him and say: What an amazing servant of Allah. He is a prophet and a worshipper. And a messenger. And he has wealth and ni'mah. What an amazing servant.
But Allah decided to test Ayyub. And raise his ranks. And through his story draw lessons for us. And so Ayyub (peace be upon him) was afflicted with diseases of all types. Some say leprosy. Others say a skin disease. But every type of disease imaginable. And his skin color changed. And there were blisters and pus across his body until he became a spectacle and a pain, a sore for the eyesight.
The Loss of Worldly Blessings
Along with this, things happened to his wealth and crops. A disease came and ravished all of his animals overnight. And then a fire came and all of his land became completely gone and devoid. And then Allah tested him by taking all of his children away. And so in a short period of time Ayyub went from being wealthy and healthy and having deen and dunya to take all of his dunya away. And all that he has now is the deen.
The People's Reaction
And the people of the town began talking, and this is the way of people. They have nothing better to do than talk. And they said: What an evil person Ayyub is. He must have done a very bad sin for Allah to take all of his wealth away, all of his children away. He must be a very evil person, or else why is he being tested in this way? And so his friends abandoned him. His colleagues left him. And he and his wife became alone after they were the center of attention.
The Wife's Sacrifice
So much so that his money began to wither away. And his wife had to go and find menial jobs. Chores, cleaning people's houses, so that she could get some money to feed Ayyub (peace be upon him).
And one time his wife came - as the days went into months and the months turned into years - one time his wife came to Ayyub and she said: Oh servant of Allah, you are a prophet. Why don't you ask Allah to get rid of all of these problems? Take us back to where we were. Why don't you ask Allah? Why do you just sit there and just do dhikr? Because Ayyub would always do dhikr. As Allah says: He would always come back and return to Allah. His tongue was always saying: Subhanallah, Alhamdulillah, La ilaha illallah, Allahu akbar.
His wife said: Make dua for what you need. Don't just do dhikr.
Ayyub's Wise Response
And so he said: Oh servant of Allah, oh lady servant of Allah, tell me, how many years did we live in wealth and peace and harmony? How many years were we blessed and fortunate? She said: 70 years. So for 70 years Ayyub lived the life.
Ayyub then said to her: Oh lady servant of Allah, for 70 years you never complained about Allah's blessings once. Now for a few years we're going through troubles and trials, and you want to complain? For 70 years you ignored - you're just happy taking, taking, taking. Now that Allah has tested us for a few years, shouldn't we be thankful for those 70 as well? Look at the whole life that Allah has given us. Why are you complaining when Allah has blessed us with so many good years? If we have a few difficult years, okay, Allah is testing us.
And so he consoled his wife.
The Test Intensifies
But the years kept on going more and more and more. Some say maybe even 10 years went by. And something happened. The books of hadith and seerah and tafsir don't mention what, but something happened. What it is Allah knows best. But it seems, and Allah knows best, that perhaps shaitan came to the wife of Ayyub and tried to strike a deal with her that if you do something for me, if you worship me, if you exalt me, then I will cure Ayyub. Perhaps something like this. Some type of wrong thing that shaitan was basically tempting the wife of Ayyub, that if you worship me then I will bring Ayyub back to how he was.
So she might have gone to her husband and she might have made this offer: Why don't we do this and we will get back? And Ayyub became angry at his wife. And Ayyub said that he was too weak to move he's lying down, he's sick and what not. He said: I swear by Allah - he made an oath by Allah - I swear by Allah, oh lady, if I am ever cured, then you shall be lashed 100 times. How dare you tell me to go to shaitan after having worshipped Allah!
So he made a vow. And he made an oath and a qasam. And as a prophet of Allah, he makes a qasam that is a big deal.
Complete Isolation
So the years go on and they're living in worse and worse circumstance. So much so, his body began to emit an odor. And the townspeople forced him to leave the town. So they had to set up a tent outside the town where he would live. No food, no water, no family. After living in a mansion, after being blessed
with everything, now he is being rejected by his own people and told to leave. And so his wife set up a tent for him. And she would go do menial chores and come back and then just feed whatever food.
But then the townspeople became even more irritated and they said: Ayyub is bad luck. We don't want him around us anymore. They blamed everything on him. Even though as Muslims, we don't believe in bad luck, but they said: Ayyub is bad luck. Let us stop giving him anything. They weren't giving him anything. What was his source of income? His wife. So they made an agreement: We will not give his wife any chores to do so that she doesn't have any stipend. She couldn't find work for days and days. The food begins to wither away until there was no food at all.
The Wife's Ultimate Sacrifice
And then one day she showed up with a lot of food. Ayyub knows what's going on - that she's not finding any work. One day she showed up with a lot of food. Fruits and vegetables and meat. Ayyub said: Where did you get the money? She said: Don't worry, just eat.
So that lasted for a while. Then that too withered away. Then she's back to square one. Then all of a sudden the same incident happens - a lot of food comes. Ayyub says: By Allah, you must tell me where are you getting this food? Where is the money coming from? I know they're not hiring you out.
And so she lifted off her hijab, and lo and behold - and she was of the descendants of Yusuf, she was a righteous lady and of the descendants of Yusuf - and she had to shave her hair. And she had sold one hair lock, one forelock, to give as a wig to someone to get money. Now she had sold the other. So now she was without hair. So she had sold her own hair to the khidmah of her husband. And she was a patient and righteous lady. And she had served her husband throughout all of these years.
Ayyub's Dua
When Ayyub saw his wife having to even sell her hair, that is when he moved to make a dua. Subhanallah, a man can take a lot of things in his own body. A man can sacrifice much of his own. But when he sees his family having to sacrifice, when he sees his wife and children, then it really affects the person.
So Ayyub (peace be upon him), that is when he was moved to make dua to Allah for his situation. And so he raised his hand and the famous dua is in the Quran:
Ya Rabb, I have been touched with a calamity, and you are the most merciful of those who have mercy.
The Eloquence of This Dua
My dear brothers and sisters, this dua is of the most eloquent and of the pinnacle of iman and tawakkul and yaqeen. Even in the dua, there is no complaint. Even in the dua, Ayyub is not saying: I want
something from you, O Allah. He is simply saying: Ya Rabb, a calamity has touched me. And it wasn't a touch, it was an enveloping. It was a complete wrapping and cover up. Ya Rabb, I'm in some difficult circumstance. He wasn't in some - this is the worst calamity that anybody can imagine. His health, his children, his property - everything is gone. But adab with Allah, respect with Allah: Ya Rabb, I'm in a little bit of difficulty. And you, Ya Rabb, are the most merciful of all. That's all. Leave it to the mercy of Allah. I leave it to you, you have mercy of Allah. You see my situation.
Ya Rabb, a calamity has touched me, and you are the most merciful of all. Memorize this dua, brothers and sisters: Ya Rabb, a calamity has touched me, and you are the most merciful of all.
Allah's Immediate Response
Immediately when he made the dua:
Immediately Allah said: We responded to him. We gave him the ijabah right there. We responded to his dua right then and there.
And Allah says to Ayyub:
Kick with your feet. This is cold water - you can drink it and you can take a bath in it.
Ayyub could not walk. He could not stand up. His whole body is pus and all of the blisters, and everywhere, he is a sight for sore eyes. So Allah says to him: Just move your foot. Like Allah said to Ismail, like Allah said to the mother of Isa: Just do a little bit. Because even the miracle you need to put in the effort. Allah doesn't just send it down. You need to do something. Even the miracle is caused by something that we do. Then Allah brings the miracle.
The Miraculous Cure
ارْكُضْ بِرِجْلِكَ - Move your foot, just kick it on the sand. And all of a sudden where his foot was, it became: هَذَا مُغْتَسَلٌ بَارِدٌ وَشَرَابٌ - This is cold water coming out. You can drink it and you can take a bath in it.
So when he drank the water, all of the internal organs that were diseased were purified. When he jumped into the water, all the blisters and all of the pus became instantaneously cured. So much so that when his wife came back with some food, she found a handsome young man. And she said: O servant of Allah, have you seen the one whom Allah has tested by the name of Ayyub? I'm looking for him, where is he? Have you seen that مُبْتَلَى )the one whom Allah is testing(?
The Double Blessing
And he said: O lady, O servant of Allah, O female, I am Ayyub. Then she looked at him and it was the Ayyub of 20 years ago. She looked at him and recognized what had happened.
The Double Blessing
And Allah says:
We gave him all of his family back and double the quantity as a mercy from us and as a reminder for people of intelligence.
Subhanallah, it is said - the books of tafsir say - that Allah made them both young again after they were old. And he made them go all the way back to the prime of their youth. And so they lived their lives in double the blessing than what they had before the calamity had struck. They got their wealth back and double. They got all of the children back and double the quantity. And they lived the life that was even better than it was before the calamity had struck.
The Hadith of the Golden Locusts
So much so the hadith in Bukhari mentions - it's a beautiful hadith. The hadith in Bukhari mentions that one day Ayyub (peace be upon him) was taking a bath and he had taken his clothes and put them aside. So he didn't have any clothes on - he's obviously alone, he's taking a bath. And Allah showered upon Ayyub nuggets the size of locusts. Imagine pure gold nuggets of gold the size of locusts - that's like worth 50,000 dollars each, actually more than this. And they're just showering.
Ayyub (peace be upon him) jumped up - and he's not wearing anything - he jumped up and he began picking the nuggets in the state that he's in and collecting them in his hand. And so he hears a voice from the heavens - this hadith is in Bukhari by the way. He hears a voice from the heavens, and the voice said: Oh Ayyub, aren't you happy? Haven't you been given enough? I gave you double. Do you have to now do this? Like you can wait, you don't have to do it right now. Oh Ayyub, aren't you satisfied with what I have given you?
And Ayyub responded back: Ya Rabb, and can any servant ever be satisfied when you continue to give? We will continue to accept. Can any servant ever be satisfied from your rahmah? The more you give, the more I want. There is no satisfaction when you are the one giving. Oh Allah, I will take and take and take.
And this is Ayyub (peace be upon him) speaking back to Allah that: Ya Rabb, I want everything. Whatever you're going to give I'll be more than happy to take it from you. And the prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) laughed when he said this hadith.
And this is the story of Ayyub (peace be upon him).
Second Khutbah - Lessons from the Story
الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ الْوَاحِدِ الْأَحَدِ الصَّمَدِ الَّذِي لَمْ يَلِدْ وَلَمْ يُولَدْ وَلَمْ يَكُنْ لَهُ كُفُوًا أَحَدٌ وَبَعْدَهُ
What are some of the lessons we can learn? Because Allah tells us in his story:
There is benefit for the people of intelligence. Allah tells us:
Think of the story of our servant Ayyub. Keep on making dhikr of it. Remind people of the story of Ayyub (peace be upon him).
Universal Recognition of Ayyub
Ayyub, the prophet Job in the Old Testament, is a role model for Jews, Christians, Muslims around the globe as a person, a paragon of patience and virtue. All Abrahamic religions they look up to Ayyub. Allah blessed him with a legendary acceptance, and his name becomes synonymous with sabr. His name becomes synonymous with what it means to resign oneself to Allah and accept the qadr of Allah.
Lesson 1: Life is Full of Trials
Of the main blessings and benefits we learn from the story of Ayyub (peace be upon him): That life is full of trials. It doesn't matter how much you're being tested. This life is not meant to be Jannah. Jannah is the next life. This dunya is not a sign of Allah's happiness. The people of the town said: Ayyub must be an evil man. Why? Because he wasn't wealthy. And since when does wealth define piety? Since when does Izzah in this dunya mean Izzah in the eyes of Allah? The people of the town were wrong. Ayyub was the best amongst them, and he was the most tested.
In fact, from our tradition we learn - listen to this, my dear brothers and sisters - from our tradition we learn that generally speaking, the general rule is that the more one is tested, the more righteous one is. Hadith is in Bukhari: When Allah wants to test somebody and he loves them, when Allah loves somebody, he increases the test amongst them. So the most tested are the most beloved. The most anxiety prone, the most worries that come in your life - flip it around and say: Allah wants to test me, and Allah wants to raise my ranks.
The believer does not want to be tested, but when the tests come, they find solace and comfort that the wisdom here is that Allah wants to raise me up. Being tested, my dear brothers and sisters, is not a sign that Allah is angry. This is from shaitan. Shaitan comes and says: Oh, you're in pain, you have financial
difficulty, you have marital issues, you have societal issues, then Allah is angry with you. No, my dear brothers and sisters, not at all.
Lesson 2: Allah Provides the Means to Pass Tests
Allah does not test his servant except that he gives him the mechanism to pass the test. Every time Allah sends a difficulty down, he sends down two eases along with it. Never look at a test from Allah and then think: I must be a bad person. Look at the test and say: Oh Allah, you have put me in this test, and you will give me the mechanism and the means to pass it, and you will raise my ranks because of it. That is my good thoughts about you, that you are putting me in this test to raise my ranks up.
Lesson 3: The Virtue of Patience (Sabr)
Also realize, my dear brothers and sisters, that patience, patience, sabr, is of the greatest blessings and of the sign of righteousness. Allah mentions sabr as being one of the main characteristics of iman. Our prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Sabr is the head of iman. Sabr is ra'sul iman. It is the pinnacle of iman.
Sabr is manifested when a calamity happens. You control your thoughts, you control your tongue, and you control your actions. When a musibah happens, you say:
To Allah we belong and to him we shall return. And you do not say anything except that it will please Allah.
And realize that sabr is primarily shown when the calamity strikes:
(Bukhari)
When the calamity first strikes, that is when sabr is manifested. When you first hear the news, when you first find out, your reaction in the next 10 seconds - it is a window into your iman. Simple as that. Your reaction, the first 10 seconds you hear of the calamity, you will get a pulse on your iman. إِنَّمَا الصَّبْرُ عِندَ الصَّدْمَةِ الْأُولَى - Sabr is demonstrated when this first stroke of calamity.
Lesson 4: Allah Gives Back More Than He Takes
As well from this incident we learn, brothers and sisters, that when Allah takes away, he gives back more. Never does Allah take something away from a beloved except that Allah will give back more in this dunya, and for sure in the akhira. And this is something that we see in the story of Ayyub. It is not possible that Allah takes something away from his beloved except that more shall be given.
That more could be the same that was taken away, as with Ayyub: He had children - he has double the quantity. He has wealth - he has double the quantity. It's raining gold on him. Or it could be another type of blessing. Maybe Allah takes somebody's wealth a little bit diminished, and then his health is increased. Maybe one aspect of life becomes difficult, but another aspect is blessed.
Realize, my dear brothers and sisters, that we are prone to look at the negatives and we take the positive for granted. That is not the attitude of the believer. We don't appreciate the positive, but every time a negative happens, Allah will bless us with more positive than the negative:
Lesson 5: The Importance of Spousal Support
As well, dear brothers and sisters, in the story of Ayyub (peace be upon him) we also learn of the importance of doing khidmah to one spouse and being faithful to one spouse. The wife of Ayyub was a righteous lady, and throughout all of these calamities she sacrificed so much for her husband. And this is what both spouses should do through thick and through thin. When the times are good, it's easy to have a good marriage. When the times are tough, we still should try to stick through and make it through like Ayyub's wife did. And then Allah blessed her as well.
And subhanallah, you know that oath that he had said - that when I am cured, you will be lashed 100 times - when he was cured, Allah revealed to him how he should get out of this oath. Why? Because she was a good lady and she might have slipped. We all slip. She might have made a mistake by agreeing with shaitan, whatever. We don't know the full story, but this is one version given. She might have slipped, but she had 10 years of service. One slip - she should not have been punished this way. So Allah defended her from above the seven heavens, and Allah revealed to Ayyub how he can get out of his oath because her honor also deserved to be defending.
When Ayyub got angry and he made an oath and he swore by Allah: You shall be lashed 100 times, Allah says - and this is in the Quran:
Take in your hand some hay - you know hay, this dried leaf - take in your hand 100 hay and just brush it across her, and I will consider this to be a fulfillment of your vow. This is the 100 lashes. It will be considered. So Allah - the point is what? Allah defended the wife. Allah defended the wife of Ayyub, that she didn't deserve this, and she might have made a mistake and she was sorry for this, but Allah told Ayyub what is the way out.
And this shows us the positives of couples sticking together, that Allah will bless those couples who stick through thick and through thin.
Lesson 6: Victory Comes Through Patience
And the final point that we will mention, InshaAllah ta'ala, for today's khutbah - and obviously it's a short khutbah, only so much can be said - the final point that we will mention is that only through sabr does Allah's victory come:
(Ahmad)
This is a hadith. The nasr only comes after sabr. Allah's help, Allah's opening, Allah's victory only comes after a period of trial. Without trial, without suffering, without calamity, there is no victory.
And so when we're going through some calamity, realize we're in a tunnel. When we're going through some calamity, realize we're in a tunnel, and Allah has put us in that tunnel because he wants us to see the light at the end of that tunnel. He wants us to exit that tunnel and come across a far better circumstance of our life, a far better situation, a far more blessed life in this world and of course the next world.
Conclusion and Reflection
My dear brothers and sisters, this life is full of calamities. Next time you're undergoing any calamity: A loved one dies - Ayyub lost all of his loved ones. You have a financial problem - Ayyub lost everything. You have one disease - Ayyub had every disease. Every calamity you can think of simultaneously happened to Ayyub (peace be upon him). And yet what did Ayyub do? Constant dhikr of Allah. Constant thanking of Allah. Reminding his wife: You never complained when Allah blessed us, so if we're being tested once or twice, now you must complain? This is the mentality of Ayyub (peace be upon him).
And it is because of this mentality and because of this role model that Allah reminds us of the story of Ayyub, and he wants us to think about that story.
May Allah allow us to be of those who benefit from the stories of the Quran and who embody the values of Ayyub and who master the beauty of patience.
Closing Duas
اللهم صل وسلم وبارك وأنعم على عبدك ورسولك محمد وعلى آله وصحبه أجمعين.
عباد الله إن الله تعالى يأمر بالعدل والإحسان وإيتاء ذي القربى وينهى عن الفحشاء والمنكر والبغي يعظكم لعلكم تذكرون. اذكروا الله العظيم يذكركم واشكروه يزدكم ولذكر الله تعالى أكبر وأقيموا الصلاة.