Remaining Firm in Confusing Times
By Yasir Qadhi | 2026-01-08T06:01:59.248309+00:00 | Topic: Time
Remaining Firm in Confusing Times
Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi
Opening and Praise
الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ سَابِغِ النِّعْمَةِ وَخَالِقِ الْإِنْسَانِ بَعْدَ الْعَدَمِ، فَالْحَمْدُ ثُمَّ الْحَمْدُ ثُمَّ الْحَمْدُ لَكَ حَمْدًا كَثِيرًا طَيِّبًا يَا رَبِّ لَكَ، أَعْطَيْتَنَا خَيْرًا كَثِيرًا رَبَّنَا سَتَرْتَ عَنْ كُلِّ الْوَرَى عُيُوبَنَا، ثُمَّ الصَّلَاةُ بَعْدَ وَالتَّسْلِيمُ عَلَى نَبِيِّ الْمُصْطَفَى الْكَرِيمِ
Verily all praise is due to Allah. We praise him and we seek his help. And we seek refuge in Allah from the evil of our souls and the consequences of our actions. Indeed whomever Allah guides, none can misguide. And whomever Allah misguides, none can guide him back to the straight path. I bear witness and I testify that there is no deity worthy of worship other than Allah. And that Muhammad ibn Abdullah al-Hashimi al-Arabi al-Qurashi is the final prophet and the most perfect worshipper.
As to what follows, Allah has reminded us in the Quran to have a consciousness of him when he says:
"O you who believe, have taqwa of Allah the way that it is befitting that taqwa be made of Allah. And do not die except in a state of Islam."
The Historical Incident: The Delegation to Abu Talib
My dear brothers and sisters in Islam, around the fourth or fifth year of the prophetic da'wah in the Meccan phase, a delegation came to Abu Talib comprised of some of the leading dignitaries of the Quraysh. Including al-Walid ibn Utbah, including Umayyah ibn Khalaf, including Abu Sufyan. Essentially you had a group of them who were of the most noble and they were on the fence. They weren't of the worst like Abu Lahab, like Abu Jahl. And they were definitely not of the best. They were in the middle if you like, in the spectrum of Kufr.
And they approached Abu Talib, the chieftain of the Quraysh and the uncle of the Prophet. And they said, "O Abu Talib, go to your nephew and request for him an audience that we are willing to listen. We're willing to listen and to see what he has to present. But we have one condition. And that condition is that our slaves cannot be in the same gathering as us."
And they meant by our slaves, the freed slaves like Bilal, like Ibn Mas'ud, like Suhaib al-Rumi who were considered to be of a lower social class than the Quraysh. And they said this is the compromise: "If he's willing to compromise and he can have an exclusive audience with us. And he gets rid of the riffraff, the low caste. Because we don't want the people to say that we sat on the same couch as our slaves. We were in the same audience as the lower group of people. And if he agrees to this, tell him we will be open to his message."
The Nature of Their Opposition
So this group of people were not that gung-ho about polytheism, about mushrik, shirk. They were open to the idea of monotheism. But they did not like this aspect of Islam. Which aspect? Racial equality. They did not like it. So they asked the Prophet ﷺ to compromise on this.
Abu Talib was excited. This is now a break. This is now we can get a peace between the two warring parties. Maybe we can reach a compromise. And Abu Talib excitedly ran to the Prophet ﷺ and he said, "Oh my nephew, surely your people have agreed to your religion with a very reasonable compromise. Accept it and khalas, this feud will be over."
The Prophet's Deliberation
What was the compromise? He said to him. The Prophet ﷺ said, "Let me think about it." And he then went to Dar al-Nadwa and he raised this issue with the sahaba over there. And he said, "What do you think? Should we allow this delegation to come and we ask the others to step outside and we have this private delegation? And they will feel honored and welcome and they might accept Islam."
One of the senior sahaba, whose name I won't mention - perhaps some of you might have bad thoughts, I'm not going to mention his name - one of the senior sahaba, well known, he said, "Ya Rasulallah, how can you not accept this compromise? You have the leaders of the Quraysh willing to accept Islam. And as for Bilal and Ammar ibn Yasir and fulan and fulan, we will make it up to them in other ways afterwards. No big deal. We will give them other gifts and make them - you know, they're good people, they're going to understand. They're sacrificing for the sake of the da'wah. No big deal."
The Divine Revelation
And it is possible, it is possible that ideas swirled even in the head of our Prophet ﷺ. The temptation was great. You have here the leaders of the Quraysh accepting Islam. But then Allah revealed multiple verses, not one but at least two - Surat al-An'am and Surat al-Kahf - multiple verses in which Allah laid clear: There is no compromise when it comes to the foundations of our religion.
Three times - don't you dare - three times in this verse of Surat al-Kahf: Do not expel the very people that are worshipping Allah night and day for the sake of a pleasure of this world. In Surat al-An'am: If you were to expel them, ya Rasulallah, you will be doing zulm upon those people, the religious Muslims.
The Prophet's Response
It is said that when these verses came down, the Prophet ﷺ stood up and he walked to where Bilal was, and Ibn Mas'ud was, and Suhayb al-Rumi was. And he sat down and he said, "Allah has commanded me
to be with you and not them. Allah has commanded me to be with you and not them." And so the compromise was rejected and the religion of Islam continued forth.
The Revolutionary Nature of Racial Equality
And by the way, this issue of racial equality - subhanallah, we now fourteen centuries later, we take legitimate pride, and we should, alhamdulillah, our religion preaches racial equality. But I want you to understand that when those verses came down, the concept of racial equality was non-existent. Not just amongst the Arabs, frankly amongst humanity.
In my reading of history, no philosopher, no theologian, no preacher before our Prophet ﷺ had such a stark and explicit and unequivocal message of human equality. No one. Every society and every civilization felt themselves better than others. The children of Israel, perhaps even religiously, they have that right because Allah said, "I have chosen you over everyone else." The ancient Greeks felt themselves better. The Romans felt themselves better. The Chinese felt themselves better. Every civilization said, "We are the best and everybody else is not as good as us." This was ingrained in humanity.
Consistency Throughout the Prophet's Mission
And from the beginning of Islam, our Prophet ﷺ came and he preached from the very beginning. Up until when? Till the final khutbah that he gave. Can you imagine? Twenty-three years of consistent preaching. Racial equality did not come in the fifth year of the hijrah, in the tenth year of the da'wah, in the seventh year of the persecution. No! Racial equality came with the very revelation of Tawheed and that was not allowed to be compromised from the beginning to the very end.
As we are all aware, what was the final khutbah? What was the khutbat ul wada'ah? Five paragraphs we've memorized, they're in your masajid and houses. Five paragraphs, one of them dedicated to racial equality:
"There is no superiority of an Arab over non-Arab, nor a non-Arab over an Arab, nor a black over white, nor a white over black, except in taqwa."
That was the last khutbah and I just gave you an incident from the first of the da'wah. Twenty-three years of consistency.
Lessons from the Time of Umar ibn al-Khattab
Even though, my dear brothers and sisters, this message of racial equality was from the beginning, obviously we still have these issues to deal with. And this is from the earliest of times, by the way. It's an interesting incident in the khilafah of Umar ibn al-Khattab - it's a side note here.
In the khilafah of Umar ibn al-Khattab, Abu Sufyan and a number of those delegates who accepted Islam in the conquest of Makkah, some of the remnants of the old guard, they came to visit the house of Umar. And they were told, "Wait, you're gonna be given an audience, he's busy with something." So they sat outside.
Then Bilal came along with Salman al-Farisi and Suhaib al-Rumi. And when Umar heard that they were outside, he let them in immediately without any waiting time. And some of these elders of the Quraysh who are now Muslim, they said, "Can you believe these people who used to be our abid have been caused to enter the house of Umar before us?"
And Abu Sufyan remarked, "Can you blame them? Islam was presented to us and them, and they accepted and we delayed. So now they shall be accepted and we will be delayed." Abu Sufyan laid it straight for them.
But the point is, these notions remained. As you all remember, in the conquest of Makkah, when Bilal climbed over the Kaaba, one of the mushrikun said, "How I'm happy my father is dead, because if he were alive, he'd have a heart attack and die seeing Bilal climb the Kaaba." He said this at the conquest of Makkah.
The Main Point: Compromise in Religious Fundamentals
My point, my dear brothers and sisters, is not necessarily to go into the issue of racial equality, is to go to something even beyond and bigger than this. And that is the following: When Allah revealed this concept of racial equality, even some of the Muslims whom we know and love, they were willing to let it go for what they thought was a healthy compromise. "We're getting political power. We're getting something useful. We're gaining the leaders of the Quraysh."
But Allah said no. "Don't do that. Stick with the quality of people." Because how did Allah describe those people? "They are invoking Allah, making dua, worshipping Allah morning and night. Do not cause your eyes to gaze away from them to a people who have the dunya, to a people that have izzah and glory in this dunya but none in the akhira. If you do so, you will be from the dhalimeen."
Contemporary Challenges
My dear brothers and sisters, we are now being faced with many areas where we're being asked to compromise. The issues are not just about civil rights anymore and racial equality. The fact of the matter is, alhamdulillah, by and large, by and large, people have come to this conclusion that publicly they cannot be blatant racist. The term racist is considered to be anathema. And I know it still exists, I know this country is manifesting - all of this is there. But nobody publicly, no politician, no respected mainstream person can claim to be a racist.
We have now come to a level in human society where by and large any quote on quote civilized person, any politician, any leader must at least verbally claim that he's not a racist. So the issue is not compromising racism. The issue is compromising other aspects of our faith. Whether it be our interpretation of gender, our interpretation of sexuality, our interpretation of family, our interpretation of a host of other issues.
The Challenge to Contemporary Muslims
We are now being put to the same test. And all too often, those that are born and raised in lands other than Islam, so they absorb values other than Islam, a lot of times our own generation, those younger than me, they question: "Why would we not tolerate this and that? Why would we not embrace these values?" Sometimes they even want to project these values onto the faith itself. And they wish to reinterpret the Qur'an in a manner that it has never been interpreted historically for the last 14 and a half centuries.
The Nature of Faith in Islam
And this leads us to the real point of this khutba. My dear brothers and sisters, faith in our religion, faith in our religion is neither blind nor fully reasoned. It is in the middle. We do not blindly believe, but neither do we require rationality for every aspect of Islam. There are certain aspects that we might not understand, but we will have to trust in the wisdom of Allah.
Racial equality was not understood by some of the sahaba. They were willing to compromise it. Racial equality was something novel when it came down. And that is why one of the senior most sahaba said, "No big deal, ya Rasool Allah. We'll make it up to them. We'll kick them out now. Tomorrow we'll give them some gifts. They'll be fine." But that is not the point. The point is that this message is standing on an entire system. Once you accept it, you accept the system.
The Process of Coming to Islam
Now, do we accept it on blind faith? No. For those who don't believe in Islam, those that are outside the faith, they are commanded by Allah to use their rationality, to think and contemplate, and to come to the reasonable conclusion that Allah exists, that the Qur'an is the speech of Allah, that our Prophet ﷺ is his prophet. The big questions are answered by the mind: Is there a God? Yes. What type of God? One, all perfect. Which religion fits? You check, check, check, and you get to the religion of Islam through process of elimination and through process of internal support. That's a separate topic altogether.
Once you come to the logical and rational conclusion that Islam is a religion from God, that the Qur'an is a book from Allah, that the Prophet ﷺ is a sent prophet, once you come to this logical and rational conclusion, now, you do not question and interrogate every single minutia of the law.
Accepting Islam as a Package
If you don't understand the wisdom of five daily salawat, you don't reject it. If you don't understand why we do tawaf counterclockwise instead of clockwise, that's not a reason for rejecting tawaf. Islam is a package deal. And every one of us, without exception, every one of us, there will come issues where we don't understand the wisdom. We just don't understand. And this is where our faith is tested. Do we believe in Islam because of these small details, or do we believe in Islam because of the larger picture? And if we believe in Islam because of the larger picture, then we must accept the wisdom of Allah even if we don't understand.
"Allah knows and you do not know"
Historical Perspective on Racial Equality
Here, after fourteen and a half centuries, we are so proud that our religion, mashaAllah, preach racial equality. And yet for many segments of our history, especially in early Islam, people did not understand that wisdom. Here we can now preach to the people of this country and the world our religion from the very beginning taught that all mankind is equal. But realize when that revelation came down, Abu Sufyan and Umayyah and Walid rejected it because Islam taught everybody is equal. The very notion that we take as a prize, the very notion that we want to call people to, it was the very notion that caused some of the Quraish to reject Islam.
The Foundation of Our Faith
The truth of our religion is not based on the details of ethics and law. We might not understand everything. We might not understand the gender roles and the sexuality. Maybe it is confusing that why does our faith say this, why does our society say that. But we have to be broad minded enough and intellectual enough to understand: My mind and your mind are not infallible. My mind and your mind are products of the world and the time and the place we're born in. We absorb the culture of our time so much so that the culture of our time seems normal, such that when it is abnormal, we don't even know it to be abnormal.
Learning from the Quraysh's Mistake
The Quraish absorbed the racism of their time and they thought it to be normal. Completely normal. Every civilization absorbs values and they view it to be normal simply because everybody else is doing it. We chastise the Quraish. In the Qur'an Allah says the Quraish would say, "We found our forefathers doing something, therefore we're gonna do it." We say, "Come on, couldn't they think? Just because their forefathers did it, just because their society did it, doesn't make it right."
Well then, how about we look at ourselves and ask ourselves: Are we not as well following our society in many issues? Are we not assuming the values of our land or culture happen to be superior simply because we were born in a time and place?
The Unchanging Truth of Islam
My dear brothers and sisters, Islam is true regardless of whether I understand the wisdom of rationality or not. Islam is true whether my mind comprehends why Allah forbade something and why Allah commanded something. That is irrelevant. Our iman has to be strong enough. And our iman, by the way, does not come from understanding these laws. It comes from the Qur'an. It comes from dhikr. It comes from thinking about the creation of the heavens and earth. We solidify our iman with the big questions. Once we do that, there is no compromise in the fundamentals of our values.
Quality Over Quantity
Allah is looking for quality and not for quantity. The izzah of this world comes and goes, and our values remain forever. Today it is one issue being challenged. Those of us that will compromise tomorrow, history will criticize you, and in the akhirah Allah knows what will happen. We need to remain firm to our values regardless of what is happening. And we need to understand that there can be no compromise when it comes to our morality, our ethics, our laws, our sharia. There is no compromise in preaching the truth.
The Distinction Between Religious and Political Compromise
Now I have to mention one point: There can be some compromise in dealing in what is called siyasa, in politics. There can be some compromise in how we navigate a life between us and other people. And the classic example for this is the treaty of Hudaibiya, where our Prophet ﷺ essentially, we would say, politically compromised, not religiously.
He said at the treaty of Hudaibiya, he said, "Any condition that they put upon me that is not disrespectful to Allah and contradicting the sharia, I will accept. Any condition they do, I will accept as long as it is respectful of the sharia." And you know the three conditions - they were very harsh, very harsh.
The Three Conditions of Hudaibiya
Number one, they said, "You are not going to be called Rasulullah. We are saying Muhammad ibn Abdullah." And the sahaba said, "There is no way, this is disrespectful." He said, "Look, I am Muhammad ibn Abdullah. Even if they don't say Rasulullah, Allah knows I am Rasulullah."
And they said, "That any Muslim from Mecca who goes to Medina will come back and we will keep him. And anyone the other way, that he will not go back to Medina." This is a big loss. The Prophet ﷺ said, "No big deal. Okay, we will accept."
And they said, "You will not perform the Umrah this year. You are going to come next year." And that was the first time in Arabian history that the Quraysh denied access to the Kaaba to a group of people. Never before and never after was access denied. The first time innocent Hujjaj and pilgrims are coming and the Quraysh said, "Go back, you are not going to come." Never before and never after.
Umar's Lesson About Intellect and Religion
And the sahaba themselves - read what happened - the sahaba themselves, many of them, they almost lost it. And this is not me speaking. This is none other than Umar ibn Khattab himself saying - this is a famous tradition from Umar. He said, "Oh people, oh people, accuse your intellect before you accuse the religion. For I found myself on the verge of rejecting Allah and His Messenger." He said kufr - and what he meant by this is ungratefulness, not actual kufr - "I found myself on the verge of kufr on the day of Hudaybiyyah when I valued my intellect over what Allah and His Messenger said. This is Umar telling us: Accuse your intellect before you accuse the religion. I made the mistake that I made in Hudaybiyyah." And of course you can look it up in the stories of Hudaybiyyah.
Living in Times of Great Change
My dear brothers and sisters, we're living at a time and a place in a society, in a region, in a land where everything is changing in front of our eyes. Those of us that are above the age of 30, you know what I'm talking about. How quickly values change. How quickly what is halal yesterday becomes haram tomorrow. What is haram yesterday becomes halal today. This is the time of great fitan, great trial, great tribulation. Put your trust in Allah.
Dealing with Doubts
If some of you are doubting the faith - and it is possible some of you are - go deeper than the minutiae and the laws. Think about the bigger questions of life. Where did I come from? Who created me? Look at yourself, this religion and the values that it stands for, the theology that it preaches. The main point of Islam that proves it is true is its theology and the Qur'an. This is how you know Islam to be true.
No other faith preaches the simplicity and the beauty of this faith when it comes to theology. No other book is going to captivate you like the Qur'an. The Qur'an is the speech of Allah. You hear it and you know it is from Allah.
The Package Deal of Islam
Once you prove to yourself that Islam is true, it is a package deal. And understand, I might not understand every rationality, but Allah knows and I do not know.
The Example of Inheritance Laws
My dear brothers and sisters, one final example for this khutbah. When Allah revealed the laws of inheritance in the Qur'an, when Allah revealed the laws of inheritance in the Qur'an, for the first time in Arabian history women were given a share, as you know. And of course that share is typically half that of a man.
It is reported in al-Tabari that when this verse came down, some of the sahaba came to the Prophet ﷺ and said, "Ya Rasulullah" - these are the sahaba, not the Quraysh, not the kufar, it's the sahaba - "Ya Rasulullah, why should a woman get half? Why should a woman get half? Now this is their saying: We are the one who fight the wars. We are the one whose blood is shed. We are the one who defend the cities. We are the one who harvest the crops. We are the one who earn. We, we, we, we. Why should the women get a half?"
"You don't know which of them is closer to you in benefit. [This is] an ordinance from Allah. Indeed, Allah is ever Knowing and Wise."
In multiple verses: You don't know, Allah knows. Allah is all wise, Allah is all knowing. Allah knows, you don't know.
The Same Question, Different Perspective
Fast forward 14 centuries, and the same question is being asked, but the flip opposite angle: Why does a woman get only half the share of a man? That's not fair. Subhanallah, what has changed? The verse hasn't changed. The Qur'an hasn't changed. What has changed?
When the verse came down, the same people that heard it for the first time, they didn't understand why half? Now 14 centuries later, the same question: Why half? But it is from the other half. Not this like "Why only half?"
Here is the point: Allah knows, you don't know. You will have to put your faith in Allah. And that's why I said Islam is a reasoned faith. We think of Islam, we come to the rational conclusion that Islam is true. Once we do, we accept it as a package deal because indeed Allah knows and we do not know.
Closing of First Part
May Allah bless me and you with and through the Qur'an. And may He make us of those whose verses they understand and those whose applications they apply throughout their life span. I ask Allah to forgive me and you as well ask Him, for He is the Ghafoor, the Rahman.
Second Part Opening
Practical Advice for Remaining Firm
To conclude our khutbah about these issues, remaining firm in areas we don't understand, some simple points of advice:
First: Make Dua for Guidance
First and foremost, my dear brothers and sisters, make dua to Allah for hidayah. Imagine our Prophet ﷺ is making dua:
More than 25 times a day. Imagine - hadith is in Muslim - the Prophet ﷺ made dua to Allah:
"Oh Allah, guide me to the issues where your creation have differed over. Guide me to the truth."
Our Prophet ﷺ is saying, "Oh Allah, whenever something is confusing, guide me to the straight and the correct opinion." Don't be arrogant with our own minds and our own understandings. Raise your hands up to Allah and pray for hidayah, pray for guidance.
Second: Ask the People of Knowledge
Number two, ask the people of knowledge. Allah says in the Qur'an:
"Ask the people of knowledge if you do not know."
If one shaykh can't answer, another shaykh can't answer, keep on asking, keep on seeing the reason, the wisdom.
Third: Remember the Broader Picture
And number three, if you cannot understand the wisdom, then go to the broader picture and remind yourself: The very first entity to think that he knew better than Allah was Iblis. Iblis was the first entity to think, "My rationality makes more sense than what Allah has said to me." When Allah said to Iblis, "Bow down to Adam," what did Iblis say? "I'm better than him. My mind is telling me, my logic is telling me, my rationality is telling me that I am better than him."
Conclusion and Main Takeaways
In conclusion, my dear brothers and sisters, two main takeaways from this khutbah:
First Takeaway: Trust in Allah's Wisdom
The main takeaway is that our religion really is from Allah, and it is teaching us values that is beneficial for us even if we don't understand it. We understand it about racism and about racial equality. There are other issues that might be grey, we might not understand, but in those issues we have goodness and khair.
Second Takeaway: Eliminate Racism from Our Hearts
And number two, my dear brothers and sisters, obviously we talked about racial equality. Let us try our best to eliminate any racism from our hearts, eliminate any looking down at other people. Our Prophet ﷺ predicted that racism shall remain in his ummah till judgment day, and the people who are doing this, he said they are not the best of you. And he said there are people who still have remnants of jahiliyyah. Let us not be amongst them and let us make sure that our hearts are pure when it comes to other people and other races. All of us are from Adam and Adam came from dust.
Final Dua
May Allah grant us pure hearts. May Allah grant us the good of this world and the next.