Reverence and Relevance Problems we Face as Muslims - Corrected
By Abdul Nasir Jangda | 2026-01-19T06:55:36.486782+00:00 | Topic: General
Reverence and Relevance: Problems we Face as Muslims
Abdul Nasir Jangda | IlmFest
Introduction
In today's brief discussion, the little bit of time that we're going to spend here together, there are three issues that I would like to address. There are three problems that I'd like for us to talk about in today's session. I'm going to go ahead and lay out the three problems or the issues that I'd like to address here.
The Three Problems We Face
Problem One: Irreligiousness and Secularization
Number one, we currently as a community, there's one thing I always tell our students and that is whenever we talk about that there is more difficulty, there's more fitna, there's more suffering, there's never been a situation like this ever before, that's not completely accurate. There's always been struggle. There have always been challenges.
However, while the degree of difficulty has always existed, the nature of the difficulty changes from era to era, time to time, place to place. One of the very unique challenges that we are dealing with today increasingly in the world, in the entirety of the ummah, and the more I travel, the more I realize that this is not exclusively a western phenomena, and that is that we have a very increased level of irreligiousness that is spreading within the Muslim community.
There's an irreligiousness, a secularization of the mind that has occurred across the spectrum, particularly in western societies, but now even the Muslim community has no longer remained immune to this. We are suffering from this hyper irreligiousness, hyper secularization, and even what I would call a desanctification.
There just simply isn't, this idea is spreading like wildfire, this sentiment is starting to become very native within the Muslim community that there's nothing sacred about Islam. It is a framework, it's an identity, it's something you belong to, kind of like a race or an ethnicity, or even something more frivolous like an association or a club.
You belong to just this group of people, and you're aligned by certain, you know, agendas, politics, ethnicity, common interests, pastimes, things of that nature, and that's essentially what Islam is. And being a Muslim today basically means that you have a name that sounds a little bit different, you have certain cultural idiosyncrasies that are cute, and that kind of help you distinguish yourself from people and feel a little bit more unique.
You don't drink coffee, but you drink chai, something of that sort or nature, something silly, or whenever, you know, every few months when a wedding comes up, then you go all out in terms of dress and decoration and festivities and song and dance culturally to illustrate how you're different a little bit.
But that's essentially what Islam is relegated to. And even those who are a little bit more motivated, they simply see Islam as nothing more than maybe a social justice framework or a platform or an agenda for addressing certain social problems, which are all very, very important. Those are very important issues, but that's not all Islam is.
So there's this secularization, this desanctification that is occurring in our society. That is problem number one. That is a huge issue that we are currently suffering through.
Problem Two: Misguided Pursuit of Sacred Knowledge
Number two, we are gathered here today, and as brother Buna Muhammad was kind of like addressing, that there might be some people who are new to this gathering. There are people who are attending in Al-Maghrib program for the very first time. But to quite an extent, I feel comfortable saying that a large part of the attendees today, a large percentage of the attendees, are people who have taken Al-Maghrib classes and like to try to seek out a lecture or a halaqa or a class on Islam, and they are motivated to study their religion in some capacity or another.
So the second issue that we have is that in our pursuit of sacred knowledge, we seem to be missing the mark. We live in an age of materialism. We live in a time where possessions and what a person possesses, what they acquire, defines their value and their worth.
And it seems like a lot of times religious knowledge and religious accolades are simply another way for us to be able to exercise some of our superiority over other people. We're just trying to utilize it as another way to achieve some type of, you know, we're able to distinguish ourselves from other people and use it as a way to validate ourselves. That's number two.
That's the second problem. Our pursuit of sacred knowledge seems like it's on a very different trajectory than the trajectory the pursuit of sacred knowledge has been on for the first thousand to twelve hundred years of Islam.
Problem Three: Division Within the Community
The third problem that I'd like to address today, and this is a really, really tough issue. The first one, in my opinion, is maybe the most critical issue. This one is kind of hard to talk about and this one will definitely maybe make some people feel uncomfortable. The third issue that we have is that there seems to be a negative trend.
And again, I do not mean to generalize. And if it comes off as a generalization, I apologize. But I do feel very comfortable saying that a lot of people feel that the more they interact with quote-unquote religious people, practicing people, students of knowledge, people that are a little bit more inclined towards learning and studying and practicing and implementing their religion, the more they are turned off and turned away.
It seems like we do not have the ability to captivate people and to draw them in and pull them in. And rather it seems like that there is an aura, there is a bit of a culture or a vibe that is developing around the more religious segments or practicing segments of the community that is becoming increasingly cultish and cliquish and it seems to be pushing and driving people away rather than bringing people in.
These are the three problems that I particularly identify in my own work, in my own life, in my own community, in my own family. These are three issues that I see and that concern me. And I'd like to talk about these three things today.
The Framework: Reverence and Relevance
The framework that I'd like to create is a framework of reverence and relevance. What do I mean by that? I hope that inshallah by the time I'm done talking, you're able to understand what I mean by reverence and relevance.
Addressing Problem One: Restoring the Sacred
Number one, the first thing I'd like to talk about is this idea of the irreligiousness, secularization. How do we put the sacred back into Islam within the hearts and the minds of people? How do we make that a sacred concept again? How do we spiritually connect people again?
And what we have to understand is that we live in a time which is oftentimes referred to as the age of information. Information is more readily available today than has ever been at any point in time in history. And what's fascinating about that is that it's not just useless information. It's not just random information.
We're not just talking about scientific information. But even religious information is more readily available and at your fingertips than it's ever been before. I can actually remember a time myself growing up when I wanted a translation, if I wanted to acquire the tafsir of Imam al-Qurtubi.
I can actually remember this. When I wanted to acquire the tafsir of Imam al-Qurtubi, which is a, I think, roughly 11 volume or 8 volume, excuse me, an 8 volume compilation of the explanation of the Quran by a great scholar from the Islamic tradition. And I wanted to acquire this tafsir, the physical copy of it.
I could not find it anywhere. I'm talking about the 90s. I could not find it anywhere in the area where I lived. There were a couple of bookstores, but they were more like, they just have some English books and things like that. But I couldn't acquire it where I lived.
There was a little bit more of an academic kind of bookstore, Islamic bookstore in Houston. I remember going to Houston just to look for this book. I had to drive to Houston from Dallas, four hours. And I went there and I looked for the book and they didn't have it either.
And someone told me that maybe a bookstore in LA or a bookstore in New York might have had the book. But I didn't particularly know somebody that could call up there and tell them to go find the book and then ship it to me.
So what ended up happening was that I had one of my uncles was going overseas and I specifically wrote down the name of the book for him. I said, go to a bookstore, show them this piece of paper and please bring the book back for me. That's what it took to get my hands on a compilation. One tafsir set.
One. And I currently right now, on this device in front of me, could pull up at least 50 different compilations of tafsir. I could pull up 50 different collections of tafsir right now. Instantaneous access. We live in the age of information.
However, that's not the reason why people are going further and further away from a meaningful spiritual connection to their religion and to their creator. That's, it's not a lack of information that's doing that. But rather there's a lack of reverence. And that reverence can only be created within people when you allow them to realize and to experience a relationship with Allah.
The Example of Banu Tamim
And this is going to take us to, this is going to require us to stop projecting onto other people. I personally might be fascinated. I myself might be motivated by reading a book. By studying tafsir. By studying fiqh. But I have to understand that that's not what's going to work for the majority of the people.
And I won't be able to, I won't be able to use books to pound Islam into people. I cannot just dump information on people and expect them to understand. And all of a sudden be motivated and inspired by the religion.
But I will have to allow them to experience a meaningful, beautiful, powerful relationship with Allah. And I will give you one example for this. That really, really strikes me.
Banu Tamim, which was a major tribe of its time, at the time of the Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم). They came to accept Islam. Or rather they didn't even come to accept Islam. They came to meet the Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) and negotiate about accepting Islam.
This was in the ninth year of hijrah. The year of the delegations. When so many different tribes came to accept Islam or to talk about accepting Islam.
When this tribe came, they were a very large, a very influential and a very proud tribe. They were very proud people. And when they came to talk to the Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) they said to the Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) that look, we are inclined towards accepting your message.
But we have a few things we'd like to discuss. Number one, they said we'll become Muslim but we won't pray. The Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) because prayer is that thing that will allow them to feel that connection to Allah.
The Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said,
"There is no good in a religion that does not have prayer."
But even look at the way he talks to them. The tone in which he speaks to them.
So the Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) talks to them this way. They say, okay, fine. We're okay with salah.
But then they say, we have three other conditions. Number one, we will give charity as a part of practicing Islam but we do not want you to send the zakat collectors from Medina to come and collect our charity. We will give it but don't send the zakat collectors.
Our people will find that insulting, like we're paying some type of protection tax. Number two, if you end up having a conflict with someone, we want to not be mandated to go to battle. We don't want to be drafted into the war.
That's our second condition. And the third condition is that if you put a leader, you place a leader, a governor amongst us, that person must be from amongst us. That person must be from our tribe because we are very proud people and they're not going to take very well to being governed by an outsider.
And understand how this basically looks and comes off. This is in the ninth year of hijrah. The Sahaba were baffled by this conversation. You came to Islam, you need to submit yourself you do not dictate terms.
The Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) told them, he granted them all three conditions, yes, yes and yes. They said, can we talk and deliberate amongst ourselves and then we'll get back to you. The Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said sure, absolutely, take your time.
When the Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم),when they stepped away, some of the companions asked the Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم)we don't understand. Why are we accommodating them? They need to submit themselves to Islam. Why are these accommodations being made for them?
And the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم at that time he said something so profound that we really need to internalize and think about. The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said:
"Indeed, they will give their charity and they will fight alongside you once they submit and become Muslim. Allow them to experience the sweetness of faith."
Allow them to realize and to feel, to experience a meaningful relationship and conversation with Allah. Allow them to develop a sense of reverence and then watch them be ready to submit and to comply. And that's something really important that we have to understand.
Meccan vs Madinah Revelation
Creating a sense of reverence within the people. Inspire before you strive to educate. You have to inspire people.
That's why when you even study the Quran as a very, very kind of, you know, a very general overview. A very general overview of the Quran. If you look at Meccan versus Madinah in Revelation, that is one of the primary observations that you're able to make.
It's almost 101 (عُلُومُ الْقُرْآن - 'Ulum al-Quran). That Meccan Revelation is dominated by the discussions in the topics of faith and spirituality and inspiration and reflection and introspection. And Madinah Revelation then gets into finer details of the implementation of the law and deeper issues of discussion and deliberation.
But that inspiration is created first. That faith is rooted. Faith and conviction is something that finds its, it takes root within the heart. And then the actions attest to it. Allah speaks about this in the Quran. About the parable of the tree. Being, representing faith. That its roots are extremely firm. And then its branches extend far into the sky.
So, people must be inspired first. And we do currently have this issue. Whenever we see this problem in society and how easy it is to be so critical and to completely just write off and condemn the masses and younger people.
That these people have no iman. They have no spirituality. These people, they have, they don't understand Islam properly. It's easy to blame them. It's easy to write them off. But we have to also think about what problem exists within us.
Within the infrastructure of our community. Within our institutions. Within our approach to even teaching and passing on and spreading the deen and the religion.
That how we become so informationally and technically obsessed that we feel that that's the way, that's the primary mechanism to actually communicating and relaying the faith to people. Even our own children, our own generations.
And that's not to say that there's no room for a deeper discussion and a deeper study of the religion. That is absolutely necessary. The people who commit. People who commit themselves to a deeper study of the religion are a vanguard of the religion and the community.
That's absolutely necessary. But we also have to understand about the strategy the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم is teaching us. That the Quran is teaching us and instructing us within. And that strategy, that philosophy is we have to inspire people.
Addressing Problem Two: Purifying Our Intentions in Seeking Knowledge
The second issue that I talked about was our own pursuit of sacred knowledge. As a segment of the community that is more motivated to learn about our deen and learn about our religion. And maybe even involved in more serious pursuits of learning of serious pursuits of learning about the religion.
We need to constantly go back and we need to review and we need to really think about exactly how we're approaching this endeavor. How are we pursuing how are we pursuing sacred knowledge? And what form has it taken on?
And the big thing that we need to do as the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم instructs us very generally, but it's particularly relevant here. And that's why scholars and ulama constantly wrote this at the beginning of their monumental works. And that is, We have to constantly ask ourselves, why I'm doing what I'm doing?
Whether it's memorizing the Quran or learning the qiraat or studying the Arabic language or studying a book of hadith or studying fiqh and usul or whatever it may be. Whatever course of study we're involved in, we have to constantly revisit our purpose of doing so.
And I know that it seems very reductive. It might seem too simplistic or too reductive to someone to say that we're doing this ultimately to come closer to Allah, but it's not. The reason why that's always the answer is because it's a universal truth.
It is a universal truth that will stand true for all time. And we have to constantly revisit whether or not I am actually coming closer to Allah, whether or not I'm becoming a better person through this exercise or not, or am I just learning certain things that gives me the ability to know more things, to talk about different types of things, to express my depth of knowledge and my intellectual prowess to people around me, or am I actually improving in my caliber and my quality as a person.
Learning from the Pious Predecessors
Something really, really small, but something so profound. I was just actually looking at something where it was talking about one of the islaf, one of the pious predecessors, and it talked about, and it's one of the very giants of our tradition.
And it was talking about that when he got older, when he was a fully grown man, and his mother was elderly, when he would sit and talk to his mother, if you were not familiar with him and with their relationship, you would think that he was extremely ill.
You would think he was extremely ill because of how softly he would speak, and how gently he would talk, and how humbly he would sit, kind of hunched over in front of his mother. Like these were actually good quality people. They had that about them. And so we have to constantly revisit.
Questions for Self-Reflection
First, we ask ourselves the question, why am I pursuing the knowledge that I'm pursuing? The second question is, how am I pursuing that knowledge? That is another travesty of our time.
Our scholars of the past used to say:
"Do not learn how to read the Quran from someone who learned it from just a mushaf, self-taught. Do not write hadith from someone who just basically read a bunch of manuscripts, checked out a book from the library."
Don't write hadith from someone like that. How are we seeking knowledge? Am I sitting there pounding away at a keyboard? And I'm calling that knowledge?
And I don't mean to be insulting or to, you know, deride anyone's efforts. Please understand what I'm saying. There sometimes are some people have the luxury. If you live here in Minneapolis, you can drive in three different directions and you can find teachers. You can find a place where you can go and study.
I understand that. But what if you're not from here? What if you're from somewhere that's two, three, four hundred miles away, in the middle of nowhere? We call it Oklahoma, right? Always. There's always has to be one Oklahoma joke.
All right. So what if you live in the middle of nowhere? What are you supposed to do? So then you have to make do with what you have available. You get a book of a scholar, of a teacher. You maybe watch some of their videos.
But as long as you do that understanding that this is not the asal, you do that understanding that you are doing tayammum, not wudu. You are utilizing what is available to you at this time. But the moment
something more valid, something more meaningful would become available to you, you would jump at the opportunity to do so.
That's one of the things I always appreciated about Al-Maghrib. Was that if you live in Raleigh, North Carolina, or you lived in Columbus, Ohio, and maybe there weren't teachers that were available there to teach. Maybe. So you were reading books and watching some videos and whatnot.
But then what would happen is three or four times a year, an actual teacher, a scholar would come to your community. And that's an opportunity. And that's where you get your test of sincerity. Are you doing it right? Is whether or not then you would free up that weekend and go sit down and actually learn in a class and interact with a person of knowledge.
"Understanding that knowledge moves from chest to chest. Knowledge is not communicated by way of ink on paper."
The Prophet's Teachings on Beneficial Knowledge
The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم taught us to pray:
"O Allah, I ask You for beneficial knowledge, and I seek refuge in You from knowledge that does not benefit."
Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-As رضي الله تعالى عنهما says:
"The Messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم used to seek refuge from four things." (Tirmidhi(
Meaning he taught us to always be very weary and be very cautious about four things. And the first of those four things was مِنْ عِلْمٍ لَا يَنْفَعُ - "from knowledge that does not benefit."
So you have to submit yourself to the process. As a person once said, trust the process.
The Proper Sequence of Learning
The third thing is what. Why, how and what. And this is something again where I need everyone to understand what I'm saying.
Studying fiqh and usul is very very important and really beneficial. But there is a curriculum that needs to be followed. And learning about the book of Allah تعالی and what Allah تعالی has said in his book has to come first.
Learning the Quran has to come first. Learning the life of the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم. The guidance the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم gave to us. The sunnah of the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم . That has to come second. We have to start with Allah and His Messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم.
Because I talked about that reverence. We have to develop that reverence. And then will come the more in-depth pursuit of knowledge.
Then you will be driven. Then you'll be motivated. Then even reading a book of usul can be a profoundly spiritual exercise for you. Because you understand that you're doing it ultimately to understand Allah's will. And to try to find a way to live your life as closely as possible to the example of the Messenger صلی الله عليه وسلم
This is why when I generally kind of go around and I get the opportunity, I understand there might be folks who are further along in their journey of studying the religion. But I would like to state just the very first step I like to share with people. And that is for each and every single Muslim. I feel it is absolutely necessary.
To read a translation of the Quran from cover to cover. And at least start by reading a complete book from start to finish on the life of the Messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم. Start there. And then see how that inspires you and motivates you.
Addressing Problem Three: Bringing the Community Together
And the last issue I talked about, the last issue I had pointed out and I'll conclude with this. Is that we also have to help bring our community together. We all have to be beneficial to one another. But there does seem to be and this kind of goes back to the first two issues. This is a consequence of the first two problems existing.
This third problem exists as a consequence of that, as a result of that. And that is our communities increasingly becoming fragmented. It's bad enough that there are things like race and ethnicity and language and culture and even politics that divide us.
But then we further are becoming increasingly divided along spiritual lines as well. That there's this growing divide between religious or practicing people and non-religious, non-practicing people. And it's just, it's a growing divide that is very, very problematic.
Greater Responsibility for Those with Knowledge
And there's, this might not seem fair, but nobody cares. It's not about being fair. It's about what's right. To whom much is given, much is asked from or much is expected. With great power comes great responsibility. Or kama kala Uncle Ben.
Right? So you've been given a gift and a blessing, more is asked of you. That's just the way it works. My teacher's teacher (رَحِمَهُ اللهُ تَعَالَى) gave a very profound example explaining this issue to him. He's passed (مُفْتِي تَقِي عُثْمَانِي رَحِمَهُ الرَّحْمٰن) away now.
He said his teacher gave him this example trying to explain to him, you have more responsibility. You are more liable. You are more accountable. You have to shoulder the blame. You have to shoulder the blame. You have to take the first step.
The Example of the Glass Jug
He gave this example. I have two of my children. I have three children, alhamdulillah. But two of my children. I have a daughter who is nine. And I have a son who is four.
If I give my daughter a glass jug, like a big glass jug full of water. And I give it to her and I tell her, take it to the other room. Take it to the other room.
She turns around and she hands it to my four-year-old, her little brother. Nine and four. And she hands it to him. He takes two steps. Obviously, he's small. He can't carry that much.
He takes two steps. He stumbles forward. He drops it, smashes and breaks the glass, creates a whole mess. He's crying. Glass everywhere. There's a mess.
Who am I going to be upset with? I'm not going to be upset with Muhammad, the four-year-old. In fact, I'm going to comfort him. I'm going to comfort him.
But I will be extremely upset with my nine-year-old Aisha. And I will hold her accountable. Even though technically, if you look at it directly, Muhammad broke it. But Aisha didn't do her job.
When we have this type of a divide in the community and there are people who are more practicing, more knowledgeable, whatever you want to call it. And then you have a large segment of the community that is moving further and further away. Going to another extreme. And there's animosity or bad feelings developing between these different segments of the community.
We have to understand that we have to make a better effort to represent Islam better. We have to represent this deen in a much more inviting fashion. And we have to do a better job of reaching out to people. They're not reaching out or they're not being compliant or they're not working with us. That's irrelevant. We have to do a better job.
The Example of the Prophet's Character During Hijrah
And the Prophet (صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّم) I'll just give one example of this and then I'll conclude.
There's this one narration that really, really strikes me. The Prophet (صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّم) when he was performing the hijrah, he was with Abu Bakr as-Siddiq (رَضِيَ اللهُ تَعَالَى عَنْهُ). And they were performing the
hijrah and on the way to the hijrah, on the way to Medina, excuse me, they went through this mountain pass and they came across two bandits.
And when the Prophet (صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّم) confronted the two bandits, they usually would rob people, highway robbers. The Prophet (صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّم) kind of called them out and they came to the Prophet (صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّم).
The presence of the Prophet (صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّم) was just so sobering. He asked them:
"Who are you two?"
And they said:
"We are the most wretched of people."
And the Prophet (صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّم) said:
"No, you are two honorable human beings."
That generosity of spirit, that kindness of the heart of the Prophet (صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّم) brought people closer. So people today are complaining about a lack of relevance of the religion. But the religion has always been extremely relevant.
It's not a lack of relevance that is the issue, it's a lack of reverence that is a real problem. And that reverence needs to be illustrated and demonstrated through our character and our conduct. We are here today learning, but understand the responsibility that comes with that.
Conclusion
May Allah guide us all to the truth. May Allah allow us to learn our religion the proper way. And may Allah make us ambassadors of this beautiful deen and this religion.
Jazakumullah khairan. As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.